The episode topic this week is Best gender extremely the audience is speaing frankly about… the best sex we have ever had! We’re joined by Autostraddle journalist, poet, and reporter Dani Janae as we enter some passionate anecdotes with an in-depth discussion in what helps make good sex suitable. And we spend a lot period back at my intimate hang ups that I could or may not have really done a lot of run come july 1st!

Arrive when it comes to lesbian movie-themed online game, stay the coming.


PROGRAM RECORDS

+
The 200 Finest Lesbian+ Films list
that Christina pulled the overall game from.

+ when you yourself haven’t study Dani’s
Physiology of a Mango
series you really must.

+
This is the essay
I had written regarding the individual We explore regarding the event. It’s just been two years but a whole lot changed!

+ The summer has gone by and now we nonetheless stan Olivia Rodrigo. Watch the
“raw” songs movie
.



Dani:

The cat and also the dog happened to be inside the place so there had been cat and dog tresses every-where. And therefore, I was undoubtedly having an allergic impulse although we happened to be sex. However the orgasm ended up being like chef’s kiss. It absolutely was the most perfect, great experience physically.


Christina:

I ask yourself whether or not it’s something concerning the hives that actually added a little

je ne sais quoi

compared to that orgasmic experience.


Theme tune plays


Drew:

Thank you for visiting

Wait, So Is This a romantic date?


Christina:


Wait, So Is This a romantic date?

is an Autostraddle podcast about, you guessed it, online dating.


Drew:

Yay! I love internet dating. I Am Drew Gregory. I’m a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and simply common trans gay person round the internet and… I found myself likely to say globe, but it’s really more like l . a . and nyc.


Christina:

I really like this globe trotting homosexual character you’re taking on listed here in 2021.


Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it really is for future years.


Christina:

Yeah. I will be the additional number, Christina Tucker, also a writer for Autostraddle, deranged loud homosexual online. Simply kind of away right here, writing, becoming gay, carrying out what we should can every moment to try to function with this existence that individuals’re living.


Drew:

You are truly carrying it out. You are really functioning during that existence.


Christina:

Frankly, it really is all I am able to carry out. That is all i’ve, this is the only choice.


Drew:

I must say I honor the effort.


Christina:

The attempt to live?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Yeah. Really, actually brave of us to even try it. You aren’t wrong, you are not wrong. Do you really be interested in playing just a little video game today, Drew?


Drew:

Oh my personal God, I’m thus excited. Cannot wait observe what you have in my situation.


Christina:

I am very happy you mentioned that as you positively have to state yes, for the reason that it’s element of this package that we’ve created right here. So you might know about the fact that on autostraddle.com, website, we’ve a list of 200 lesbian flicks.


Drew:

I am aware of it. I could have written it.


Christina:

Maybe you have. The things I do is actually move an array of 10 of those films. I held these to the very best 50. I will give you the land keywords and phrases as decided by customers on IMDb and you’re planning to need do you know what motion picture it’s.


Drew:

Okay. I just wish the listeners, wherever you may be, to find out that I am not likely to pull up the list. I believe yes it’s true, am I making the assumption that’s correct in the way I must respecting the game?


Christina:

In my opinion that’s really respectful and I also genuinely believe that’s fair. In addition kind of confidence this is certian be something which comes to mind fairly possible for you, i did not go too kept.


Drew:

You will find a bad mind, but yes, i will try to set individuals up for reasonable expectations.


Christina:

Reasonable sufficient.


Drew:

So if I do very well, its love types of hit them away, whenever I don’t do well, are going to love, “Well, she talked about…” Anyways, carry on. Let us start this.


Christina:

Let’s beginning. I am going to focus on pretty common types and I get a lot more specific as we get, because a lot of them tend to be actually exactly what the movie is in two terms. So weare going to you will need to start with a wider experience right here.


Drew:

I really like it.


Christina:

Our very own very first movie: drugs could be the basic story term. Manhattan, new york will be the next. Hate criminal activity will be the 3rd.


Drew:

Okay.

Its All-over Me.


Christina:

Yes, truly! See, I realized you’d be able to do this.


Drew:

Great.


Christina:

I absolutely realized you’d be able to perform this.


Drew:

Additionally, i simply need certainly to let individuals understand that that will be one of the most underrated lesbian motion pictures, and also you really should see it. And Leisha Hailey for the reason that motion picture is my telephone history for one or two years now. Therefore just an enjoyable small reality truth be told there for several of you.


Christina:

We like that. Fine, motion picture number 2. “Unknown parent,” organ donor, cemetery, death of daughter. Oh, she actually is considering.


Drew:

Personally I think like i ought to definitely get this centered on — delay, unknown father, loss of boy, organ donor. Oh,

All About My Mother.


Christina:

Truth be told there it’s, see.


Drew:

A differnt one of my preferences.


Christina:

It is very thrilling observe the things that folks decide tend to be a story key phrase that they have to move because of these flicks. I’m in addition maybe not checking out any of the ones being only lesbian because that seems a lot like a gimme.


Drew:

Which is the way I make most of the number because if you appear up lesbian films, everything found was the old Autostraddle record or some databases that aren’t extremely comprehensive, and so I would in fact search through listings associated with key words of lesbian, lesbian making out, these things like girls kissing, this stuff, and discover flicks in which they are not looked at as a lesbian flick since they are a little more fascinating, or maybe just slightly less drive, and that’s how I discovered many flicks which happen to be now regarding the listing, so full circle.


Christina:

Pay attention, IMDb keyword phrases to arrive useful for all of us on a regular basis. This option, folks went wild on this subject one. Very merely gonna read some arbitrary words for you. Hey, whistling, woman, black recreations bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on-the-job collision.


Drew:

Working crash? Oh, I thought I had it immediately after which, well—


Christina:

Colder, in parentheses, the temperature.


Drew:

Due to the fact initially I became gonna state

Foxfire,

then again the working crash changed myself right up. At work crash.


Christina:

Do you need even more?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Pickup accidents through a fence.


Drew:

Can it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?


Christina:

It is far from.


Drew:

Because on the job accident was a truly awful method of describing this 1 on the gay as you’re attempting to convert to not gayness, attempts to mutilate themselves or really does mutilate themselves. That’d be very extreme, but I didn’t know using the IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, this can be fooling me personally up.


Christina:

Would you like even more from me personally?


Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I am sure it really is something that I am just not… Yeah, keep going.


Christina:

Reference to a college loan. Normally so walnuts.


Drew:

Hold off, have you seen this flick?


Christina:

I have seen this film.


Drew:

Could it possibly be untamed that I’m not setting it up?


Christina:

It’s a little crazy. I’m able to provide a year, if you want a year.


Drew:

In the event that you give me personally annually, We’ll surely get it.


Christina:

Okay. 2016 is your 12 months.


Drew:

2016. Okay, tell me what it is.


Christina:

It will be the film,

Particular Girls,

2016.


Drew:

Oh! Yeah.


Christina:

I must say I thought pickup truck accidents through a barrier would produce, but In addition simply love these people just pulling-out nouns and merely becoming like, “male.” Usually what you think?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Okay.


Drew:

Which is a great motion picture. I need to note that once more.


Christina:

Its. Its the movie.


Drew:

Yeah, it really is a very fantastic film.


Christina:

Okay, our very own then film. Kissing while having gender.


Drew:

The greatest sorts of both, maybe, somehow.


Christina:

Attraction, dude ranch.


Drew:

Is it

Desert Hearts?


Christina:

Yeah. Thus I had been like, “Okay, you have got receive that after that one.” The other one I became planning provide you with ended up being — “nipples” was the really conspicuously included. And I was like, “Sure, definitely section of that film.”


Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You understand how there’s all those frustrating folks available attempting to be Shane. Sorry, What i’m saying is, if you’re trying to end up being Shane, we recognize you. But me personally, my personal irritating thing is the fact that i am wanting to end up being Cay. Cay for the reason that film is much like this is certainly whom i do believe of since the method of lesbian that i wish to be.


Christina:

Yeah, that is correct, can verify. Fine, are we ready for the then any?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

12 Months—


Drew:

Hold off, no, i’ve yet another thing to express about

Desert Hearts.


Christina:

Certain.


Drew:

Following the final time I re-watched it across the summertime, it type of sent myself into a slight spiral, and that I texted this older semi-closeted individual who I had kind of begun tentatively planning to day or big date whatever, and that has disappeared for 30 days, and that I had given up on because I really don’t beg individuals to date me personally. But i simply had been similar, “Okay.” We viewed

Desert Hearts

and I ended up being similar, “i assume perhaps occasionally people have their particular internalized whatever.” And I also texted her and that I stated, “If we never meet, i do believe you’re going to regret it.” And we also performed satisfy, in order that’s exactly what

Desert Hearts

can create for your requirements.


Christina:

Wow, that is a really effective endorsement.


Drew:

We most likely shouldn’t have fulfilled. We most likely requires merely allow it to end up being. But anyways, shifting, then film.


Christina:

The next movie, metaphysics, scene during orifice loans — exactly what that implies, it’s up to you — highschool football, Chicago, Illinois.


Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.


Christina:

There you decide to go.


Drew:

That is another great flick. I prefer that We keep being surprised through this number that I’d a really powerful hand in standing. It isn’t my personal position, but I did have a large say in positioning and I love it.


Christina:

Yeah. I recently want to be clear to you personally and our very own audience — once again, I chose through the top 50, therefore these are great ones. For the great people, they are great ones. I’m Sure Drewwill constantly state that is a fantastic film after each one, but—


Drew:

They truly are excellent films, all of you should enjoy all of them.


Christina:

Fine. Short top with heels.


Drew:

Love it.


Christina:

Cock blocked, mini skirt with footwear.


Drew:

What i’m saying is, is-it

Blockers?


Christina:

It is far from. That will be too simple, i believe, for

Blockers.


Drew:

Really Don’t recall any miniskirts, but—


Christina:

Female back nudity.


Drew:

Okay. Hold off an extra. Okay, exactly what a second. Okay, dick blocked, mini dress, female rear nudity.


Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Break dancing.


Drew:

Is it

Certain?


Christina:

It’s not.


Drew:

No, i’d love a rest moving world.


Christina:

I love some slack moving scene in

Bound.


Drew:

A break moving world.


Christina:

I will provide you with: English lady overseas.


Drew:

English lady abroad? This really is a different one in which I believe I surely need to have it.


Christina:

I’ll must present a pretty apparent any at some point, to ensure thatshould assist.


Drew:

Okay, give myself a clear one.


Christina:

Undercover agent.


Drew:

Is-it

D.E.B.S?


Christina:

It is not

D.E.B.S.

It is right beside

D.E.B.S.,

brand of film smart. Discover another one, intrigue.


Drew:

Okay, wait, there is not many genre flicks.


Christina:

You will findn’t, that is true.


Drew:

Undercover agent. Really, possibly they’re utilizing the phase, could it be

The Handmaiden?


Christina:

It is not.


Drew:

Okay, I didn’t think so. Undercover representative.


Christina:

Are you wanting your own season?


Drew:

I Was Thinking that… Sure.


Christina:

The season is actually 2017.


Drew:

Undercover agent.


Christina:

I am therefore sorry. You’re feel very dumb as I state the subject for this one.


Drew:

Oh no.


Christina:

I’m truly sorry about that, but that is type of simply the way the cookie crumbles.


Drew:

Oh, its

Carol.


Christina:

No, it’s not

Carol.


Drew:

No, it claims 2015.


Christina:

Yes, I know that. It isn’t

Carol.


Drew:

But there’s an undercover — the guy, this is where I was considering. Okay, the facts? Why does it make myself feel stupid?


Christina:

Its

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.


Drew:

Oh, that’s inside top 50?


Christina:

It is. I’m sure.


Drew:

Oh, okay.


Christina:

Fine. Offering four more, you ready?


Drew:

I really don’t feel that silly for the reason that it one I… I mean, i do believe

Atomic Blonde

is fun, but I do not imagine it really is great. That would not be in my individual top 50. I really do want the entire world to find out that I know that

Carol

arrived in 2015. My mind damage. I recently want the planet to find out that. Anyways, carry on.


Christina:

The entire world today understands that, the record has-been reflected. All righty: bistro, feeling of odor, novelist, mention of a hamburger, regard to Larry King, predicated on memoir, alcoholic, theft, lady wears eyeglasses, residing by yourself, damaging proof.


Drew:

The mention of Larry King is really—


Christina:

It’s a very odd one.


Drew:

Regard to Larry King, damaging proof.


Christina:

Cat.


Drew:

Oh, is-it

Can You Actually Forgive Myself?


Christina:

Truly.


Drew:

I had to develop to redeem my self. I was really in a slump there.


Christina:

You nailed it. I think you got there, I do believe you definitely got indeed there. All right, three even more, our top three. In my opinion these people can be possible for you because I’m sure you.


Drew:

Great, okay, really…


Christina:

I’m sure, but i am saying, are you ready?


Drew:

Okay, yeah.


Christina:

Psychological state, drug overdose.


Drew:

Will it be

Foxfire?


Christina:

No. Photographer.


Drew:

Oh,

Greater.


Christina:

There we go. Tattoo, lady group.


Drew:

Is it

Foxfire?


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

Oh, i am aware

Foxfire.


Christina:

I was like, “Oh, she’s going to only hold guessing

Foxfire

until i simply offer the woman

Foxfire.”

http://www.m4m-hookup.org/


Drew:

The key is i really like

Foxfire

and that I hold planning to consider

Foxfire.


Christina:

I am talking about, whomst in our midst?


Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.


Christina:

Okay. This 1, one of them is—


Drew:

This is actually the final one?


Christina:

This is the last one. It is our very own final any. Church, denial, family members interactions.


Drew:

Is it

Miseducation of Cameron Article?


Christina:

It isn’t really.


Drew:

Could it possibly be

But I’m a Cheerleader?


Christina:

Truly, yes.


Drew:

Yes. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.


Christina:

Jokes on laughs. So that was the game I’m phoning, How Well really does Drew Know Lesbian Movies???


Drew:

I enjoy just how great we have been picking out brands in regards to our games.


Christina:

Yeah, is in reality mortifying that I even wrote that during the title of a Google Doc, the thing that was we thinking? That doesn’t also appear great within my Google Docs.


Drew:

I had a very good time and I also’m actually grateful that I got to inform all listeners about most of the motion pictures which they should view. And in addition we’ll put the number from inside the show records.


Christina:

Completely.


Drew:

I would claim that the list is now at a location in which In my opinion you might get some thing regarding enjoying all 200 motion pictures. The most important type of record, there was some stuff on the website that I happened to be not too pleased about. There continues to be stuff i do believe that I do not personally but i do believe that as a whole, there is a certain quality control following this latest up-date that i’m happy with and that I believe they are all really worth watching.


Christina: